[em-bee]

why not present the consequences of cutting open your mouth with glass? those should be serious enough to make an impression.

> focus on the person, not the behavior

what does that mean? or how do you do that? when it comes to bad behavior, i want to show them that their behavior is problematic, and not judge the person. so if i should focus on the person, that needs to be qualified that it's not about punishment or threats but something else. but i don't know what that would be.