[ta8645]

There are a whole slew of activities you can not do when working a full time job, either.

But in any case, when you have children, you are choosing the family life. Which means some things will no longer be an option. But that is true for every decision we make in life.

There is no way to have everything in life, even through the magic of taxation and government "universal" programs.

[googlryas]

Except, you aren't necessarily choosing that if you have adequate, dependable childcare arrangements, like a universal early childcare .

It's only, essentially, poor people who have to give up on their pursuits if they also want to raise a kid.