[stevage]

Never had a wedding, but been to lots of them.

I always found paper invitations annoying. I get so little paper mail I'm barely in the habit of checking the mail box. They seem to sit outside my normal flow of scheduling etc. And sometimes you have this situation where you have been verbally invited but have to wait weeks for the thing to actually show up.

I'd honestly be happier with a calendar invite. And save yourself the money on the paper.