[gbacon]

You wrote about what "we" need without identifying whom else that statement represents. You may prefer higher-density housing. It may even be the case that a majority of people near where you live prefer high-density housing. This is not a universal preference nor objectively better. Those who do not share your particular taste do not necessarily prefer "living super far away from others" either.

Let's begin by acknowledging the vast middle ground between the two extreme positions and also downsides of population density.

What does utopia look like for mice? According to a researcher who did most of his work in the 1950s through1970s, it might include limitless food (of course!), multiple levels and secluded little rodent condos. These were all part of John Calhoun’s experiments to study the effects of population density on behavior. But what looked like rat utopias and mouse paradises at first quickly spiraled into out-of-control overcrowding, eventual population collapse and seemingly sinister behavior patterns.

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/how-mouse-utopias-...