[smcguinness]

That is great advice and I can say that sticking to it can be hard and if done does prove to making hacking while married not all that stressful on the relationship.

I'm now moving on to the hacking with a child phase. First due in July. Not sure what my hacking schedule is going to be yet, but I'm sure it is going to be much more abbreviated . But I'm hoping that will keep me better focused during those times that I am.