i think to the uninitiated it might sound like you're proposing a plan to do something about the population, which has never been well-received :)
once you're married to a name, it's biologically impossible to see it the same way from the inside, that's why you need to look into an outsider's eyes IRL while you say the name
once you're married to a name, it's biologically impossible to see it the same way from the inside, that's why you need to look into an outsider's eyes IRL while you say the name
try something fun, like "The Name Game" haha