There's really no need to do this, or to point out that some of the men (or women, or persons) were black or asian, non-heterosexual, had a physical or intellectual handicaps or any other particular attribute that I didn't specifically enumerate. It sort of implies malice or misogyny on my part, of which there is of course none. I could have said "people", but it's malicious to assume that by not having chosen that word that I somehow myself am a chauvinist.
Policing speech in this way is, in my opinion, detrimental to us all and to our ability to communicate our thoughts and have them interpreted charitably, where instead we might have to consider every possible negative interpretation, carefully tiptoe around those, and just perhaps not say anything at all.
Imperfect communication is better than none, and malicious interpretation stifles that.
It's impossible to become perfect, but I also disagree that saying "men" is necessarily wrong or "imperfect", much like saying "hey guys" to a group of people that includes women, it's just a figure of speech, not a political statement.
One of the many dangers is that instead of debating the merit of the core argument (that worthy people become wealthy), we sit here splitting hairs and nitpicking at the choices of individual words that are extremely tangential to the original argument.
Therefore, as I said, imperfect communication is better than none -- otherwise we'd never get to debate anything at all, and therefore can't learn and grow.
> but I also disagree that saying "men" is necessarily wrong or "imperfect"
I'm sure that you do.
> (that worthy people become wealthy),
Note that you used "people" and not "men". Almost like this is a more accurate depiction of the argument you believe you're making. So why say men in the first place? Maybe...a deeply ingrained bias?
> otherwise we'd never get to debate anything at all, and therefore can't learn and grow.
But...if you're committing to not learning and growing either way, by suggesting that opportunities for growth are "nitpicks" and "splitting hairs", you also can't learn and grow...
That's just it though, isn't it? I have to say "people" instead of "men" or I'll be argued with and attacked on a tangential subject instead of the substance of my argument about wealth and worth.
That means I might spend 15% of my time thinking about how I might possibly be misinterpreted instead of on the actual problem at hand.
It's overhead and expense that doesn't actually help anyone. It's just a veneer of pretending to help. Anyway I think we've covered the whole tangent now.
If you consider this interraction an "attack", I'm unsure how you're able to communicate with other humans at all. I've been very cordial, simply pointing out an alternative way of thinking.
> subject instead of the substance of my argument about wealth and worth.
If you'd like to talk only to yourself, maybe don't post on the internet? I'm sorry, but communicating with other people involves _actually communicating_. As in, they're able to respond to the things you write.
> That means I might spend 15% of my time thinking about how I might possibly be misinterpreted instead of on the actual problem at hand.
If it takes you that long to replace a single (to you) irrelevant word in a sentence, I apologize for having ruined so much of your day. It's really not that complicated.
> It's overhead and expense that doesn't actually help anyone.
Are you sure? It seems equally as likely that you're just demanding to behave however you want, regardless of other people's opinions.
Policing speech in this way is, in my opinion, detrimental to us all and to our ability to communicate our thoughts and have them interpreted charitably, where instead we might have to consider every possible negative interpretation, carefully tiptoe around those, and just perhaps not say anything at all.
Imperfect communication is better than none, and malicious interpretation stifles that.