[em-bee]

There's no solving this problem because it is fundamentally human in nature.

the solution is unity. you are right that with a someone in a position in power making decisions it can be very difficult to change that, but when the whole team makes a decision then the whole team can also change that decision.

what is important here is to develop that mindset that everyones input to a decision is valuable. the challenge is that this requires trust that needs to be developed