And that's... fine? As in, if you're done with it, you can choose not to play. Stay single if it makes you happier. Just don't shift blame to others, they have their own life and choices that are completely out of your hands and concern.
he didn't say he is single or planning to stay single forever. He might as well dating someone younger. For woman its generally:
- harder to date someone younger
- it's harder to date when you are 35+ (smaller pool of single people) but even harder for woman (because guys take bigger importance into how someone look and because of woman biological clock)
- when someone is divorced with kid (even when young) is hard to date for anyone but for woman even more difficult