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> The only reason to even have a military is to have the ability to fight and win wars. If your military can't do that, it's not worth having at all.

While it is one use case, it is not all use cases.

> Is this based on personal experience? If so, how recent? My experience in the military is several decades old, but the above is not a good description of what I experienced then.

It is based on multitudes of studies in psychology, neuroscience, sociology, evolutionary anthropology, and the like. At its very core, the purpose is to reduce individuality and to reprogram a person's brain and body to fit the characteristics of military use cases; to make replicable bodies fit for military use. There's tons of declassified docs that describe this process, at least since WWI. And then if you study history then you'll know this has been a topic of investigation for thousands of years.

This is why there is an "adjustment period" and persons are strongly suggested to under go deprogramming before returning to civilian life. You've tricked the brain into believing a specific version of reality that is not objective reality, and there's so much PTSD/cognitive dissonance that the human brain and body is now forced to endure post-service. It's quite taxing physically, mentally and emotionally. You know, like a cult... Because it's a cult.

This is not a new phenomenon by any stretch.

[pdonis]

> While it is one use case, it is not all use cases.

Really? What other use cases are there for a military?

> It is based on multitudes of studies in psychology, neuroscience, sociology, evolutionary anthropology, and the like.

In other words, no, you have no personal experience to back up your claims. You should not presume to speak of what you do not know.

As for the "cult" accusation, historially, militaries that work like cults do not win wars. Militaries that win wars have esprit de corps, but that is not the same as a cult. A cult has no objective purpose outside the people who run it. A military does--or at least, a military that can actually win wars does.

[brightlancer]

> > It is based on multitudes of studies in psychology, neuroscience, sociology, evolutionary anthropology, and the like.

> In other words, no, you have no personal experience to back up your claims.

It's ironic that in a threat discussing leadership as a discipline, someone would make an appeal to "lived experience".

Unless someone here was with you, they don't know (nor do I) what your personal experience was. Similarly, you don't know everyone else's personal experiences. OTOH, we have these wonderful social sciences which go around and collect data from lots and lots of individuals, draw conclusions and publish them for other people to read and learn.

The data and conclusions might not be representative of your experience, but it's rubbish for you to handwave it away for your individual, subjective experience.

[pdonis]

> It's ironic that in a threat discussing leadership as a discipline, someone would make an appeal to "lived experience".

It's not ironic at all. Leadership itself is something that can't be studied purely from the outside.

> we have these wonderful social sciences

I don't share your rosy view of these so-called sciences. But that's not something we're going to resolve here.

[pdonis]

> there's so much PTSD/cognitive dissonance that the human brain and body is now forced to endure post-service

Combat is traumatic by its very nature. Of course many people who experience it are going to have PTSD, just like with any other traumatic experience.

As for "cognitive dissonance", anyone who has been through a particular harrowing experience is going to have some difficulty dealing with people who not only have never had the experience, but devalue it because they don't understand it. The only way to fix that is to (a) teach civilians that people who volunteer to serve their country in the military deserve respect, not disdain, and (b) teach our political leaders that they need to not use the military unless it's really necessary, so that the public will support such usage instead of protesting against it.

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> but devalue it because they don't understand it.

No one is devaluing it. I'm certainly not. Rather it is highlighting that humans are vulnerable, by genetic design. And it requires actual help to reprogram the brain. To take on the burden alone is quite a difficult and insurmountable task.

For your (a) and (b) you are definitely entitled to your opinion on how you want to be viewed and treated in the world. This is very much the same as women arguing that men should not have a say over their bodies; bodily autonomy is a human right, not a right reserved for only white men.

[pdonis]

> humans are vulnerable, by genetic design. And it requires actual help to reprogram the brain

Sure, I'm not disputing this at all. I'm just pointing out that this has nothing whatever to do with the military being a cult. It has to do with the nature of the military as an occupation. The military is certainly not the only occupation that has traumatic experiences as an expected part of service, and that needs to have a plan in place to deal with that.

> For your (a) and (b) you are definitely entitled to your opinion on how you want to be viewed and treated in the world.

It's not a matter of my or anyone's wanting to be viewed a certain way. It's a matter of understanding as a country why we have a military at all and what it is for, and holding our political leaders accountable for making appropriate use of the military and giving it the support it needs.

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> I'm just pointing out that this has nothing whatever to do with the military being a cult.

So, it actually does. One must "de-program", meaning to unravel previous programming, such that the brain can learn a new wiring for existing. It's very much linked to the previous "training"/"programming" one endures via the military.

The military is not unique in this regard. We also see this with religious groups, self-help groups, and even in corporate environments. We're humans and we are vulnerable by default. And that's a beautiful thing that in my opinion needs to be preserved as we face this AI-interjection in our lives.

> It's not a matter of my or anyone's wanting to be viewed a certain way. It's a matter of understanding as a country why we have a military at all and what it is for, and holding our political leaders accountable for making appropriate use of the military and giving it the support it needs.

I agree that leadership making irrational decisions at the expense of humans, humans that are committed to protecting our country, needs urgent attention. It's disrespectful and can lead to catastrophic loss of life for service members. It causes unneeded pain for families. I agree.

[brightlancer]

> (a) teach civilians that people who volunteer to serve their country in the military deserve respect, not disdain,

Why? What if someone feels neither respect nor disdain but mostly indifference?

What if someone treats each active member or vet as individuals, to be respected or disdained based upon their past and present behavior?

You're trying to swap one prejudice for another. So, no.

[pdonis]

Indifference at an individual level is not necessarily a problem. Nor is exercising individual judgment.

However, as a matter of public policy, our current treatment of veterans, to put it bluntly, sucks. The VA is underfunded and overworked, and many vets do not get the kind of support they need and deserve after risking their lives. The only reason the government can get away with that is that there is no political pressure to fix it.

[pdonis]

> You've tricked the brain into believing a specific version of reality that is not objective reality

Whereas civilians, of course, have a completely accurate view of objective reality with no illusions? It is to laugh.

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>> You've tricked the brain into believing a specific version of reality that is not objective reality

> Whereas civilians, of course, have a completely accurate view of objective reality with no illusions? It is to laugh.

No. It's just different; in some ways radically different than the niche reality of "military." .... That's the point.

Are you still in the military because you are sending clear signals that you are not in control of your own mind. Which gets into the illusion of free will and if that's real, but there's a boundedness that is tight or loose depending on the individual/group. And yours seems quite tight. As in, constricted from any thoughts outside your military programming. Scary stuff.

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> you are not in control of your own mind

Personal attacks will get you banned here. No more of this please. Also, please avoid perpetuating flamewars - we don't want those here, and you did it quite badly, and a lot, in this thread. See also https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=36935261.

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This is how cults work. Another example is Republicans who believe in Trumpism and QAnon. It is quite reasonable that those persons can use a defense of insanity, because they are brainwashed (i.e., not in control of their minds). It's how cults work.

I didn't make cults. And I didn't make people join them.

Why does providing basic facts break rules of HN?

[dang]

You made the statement in a personal way. Responding with a generic argument doesn't address that.

Telling someone "you are sending clear signals that you are not in control of your own mind" is super obviously a personal attack, or at least guaranteed to read as one. Please stop doing that so we don't have to ban you—and please stop posting flamewar comments as well. It's not what this site is for, and destroys what it is for:

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

[scrum-treats]

It's not a personal attack. It's a statement of cause and effect. When a person is programmed to think and believe a certain way, to the point of operant conditioning, that pattern in the brain fires first. By design. That's the purpose.

In terms of the "flamewar" claim, (1) did you also warn the other person? (2) Just because the truth doesn't make people feel good doesn't make it less true. Stoking a flame can be a subjective experience depending on one's personal position about a topic.

> please stop posting flamewar comments as well

Okay. Noted. Will do.

[pdonis]

> It's just different

If you mean that civilian life is different from military life, yes, of course, that's to be expected. That doesn't mean civilian "reality" is somehow more valid or more accurate than military "reality". Indeed, since most civilians aren't expected to routinely risk their lives as part of their job, one would expect civilians' view of reality to be missing some things. (And looking at civilians whose jobs do routinely involve risking one's life, such as police or firefighting, might give quite a different take on even civilian "reality".)

> Are you still in the military

No. I already said elsewhere in this discussion that my military experience is several decades old.

> you are sending clear signals that you are not in control of your own mind

Spare me your patronizing. You are welcome to your uninformed opinions, but don't expect me to respect them. I see no point in further discussion with you.

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> That doesn't mean civilian "reality" is somehow more valid or more accurate than military "reality".

It's not any more valid than living in a different culture. There's an assimilation that one undergoes. And it seems to be the case that the transition from military to civilian life is quite jarring (for lots of reasons we don't have to address here). I don't think people understand how PTSD (e.g., the constant nightmares and jerking awake to fight for your life, against your kids who stumbled in the bedroom because they are scared of the dark) impacts families. It's silent. And VA doesn't provide sufficient resources to help people cope. It's a serious situation. It's possible to make the transition better for service members and their families. It's also gravely underfunded.

> I see no point in further discussion with you.

OK. Well, if you change your mind, I'm cool with continuing the conversation.

[laserdancepony]

And you are the only one who can see clearly through everything. How nice.

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> And you are the only one who can see clearly through everything. How nice.

I'm not the sole arbiter of truth. Lots of people research and write about these topics. I'm also autistic and this happens to be one of the things I research to death (being human, how humans "human", power dynamics, group dynamics). I really like this topic actually.

Apologies if I'm coming off callous. It's not my intention.