[varispeed]

> This is Western attitude right down to the implication that you have some sort of insight that invalidates what the parent is saying.

This is my experience and it is true. Getting people to apply philosophy of other cultures without taking into account the context, it's a recipe for disaster. You can't blindly follow the advice of the OP in the western society - at least no without awareness and being vigilant that there are always people ready to exploit something that they perceive as weakness.