[nashashmi]

Men don’t communicate (as much).

The rest of your hypothesis rests on an idea that women evolved (into a species?) with reinforced traits focusing on appearance. Disagree here Because Men and women didn’t evolve into different “species” And neither do we find similarities between them in this regard.

Selection pressure is an idea that tries to explain the trends in evolution. It is just an idea. It would be careless to trace everything in current state of behaviors to evolutionary changes.

You would be better off leaving evolution out of the picture.

(Edit: I’m deeply disturbed by your view. The people who advocate for child-love use similar reasoning.)