[ganbatekudasai]

Too bad, because from my (close) experience with people with BPD that I talked about elsewhere in this thread, good therapy can totally fix that. However, that probably also needs a great deal of introspection, and from my experience with people in general, it sadly seems like far from everyone is really introspective.

So if your mother is on top of the BPD someone who generally does not inspect and question her feelings, might not have helped...