[mrlinx]

Funny enough, as a man, I find this idea of "play sports with others" as a bonding approach, way too impersonal.

I can also find myself being competitive or taking things too professionally, and spent too much time discuss technical aspects and not fostering a more deeper connection with others.

[aamoscodes]

Group activities like this are great for finding your people. You will likely encounter another competitive, technically minded person and no one will be offended if you split into your own group/universe