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by jowdones 1067 days ago
What I find strange is how someone doesn't have a mother, father, brother, grandparents, aunts, cousins to help a little when in need. I mean they must have been born somewhere, doesn't anyone in the family tree own a place to live?
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They have experienced a family member with addiction and know that "helping" them in any way (money, food, even housing) just helps them get high and makes the problem worse.
someone who became homeless because they don't make enough money is likely to come from a family that doesn't make much money.

someone who becomes homeless due to addiction is not likely to be supported by their family because people, in general, hate addicts. even well-off families often can't or won't afford to pay for the help the addict needs, or the addict needs more help than can be afforded, and eventually the family is likely to get sick of it and the addict is again homeless.

you might believe that these aren't the case, and I can't convince you, but the traditional family support network barely exists now and usually doesn't accomplish much when it does exist.

Orphans are a thing, you know. Not everyone has family members able and willing to let them live with them.