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by grrdotcloud
1065 days ago
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Having been homeless I know the chasm between living on the street in a tent and a suburban home is about a ten thousand decisions over the course of several years. I would argue the life we will have is very predictable, on a 5-year timeline, based upon decisions between today and the next year. Small things, like showing up to work on time, has a compounding impact upon one's life. The ability to afford a mortgage has a dependency of a few thousand good decisions resulting from several years of positive actions. |
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My best personal example of this is one of the first times I was trying to get sober, had gotten a chromebook and was beginning to work online. About halfway to saving money for deposit on an apartment when a cop threw my tent and backpack in the river. I was back in the bottle within a week. The life you live is very predictable, but that's one of the things you lose along with your home. I'm surprised you didn't learn that out there.