[Tycho]

So does that mean femininity does not entail belief in one's self and doing what feels right?

[jessedhillon]

Only if you think femininity is the set of all things not masculine.

[Tycho]

So why would two factors common to both femininity and masculinity be something that women focus on to represent true masculinity. It doesn't make any sense.

This is nothing more than the propagation of an unidea that people tolerate because it doesn't make any value judgements about either gender, or something.