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by magnifyhim
1086 days ago
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This really resonates with my personal experience. Still, I can hear my inner contrarian asking: to what extent are people happier/more productive if their work follows their curiosity? We're encouraged to get in touch with your true curiosity/interest, free ourselves from expectations, etc. Personally, I've found the greatest satisfaction, peace, and even freedom when I work on things that are useful to my friends (let's include authority figures in this framing for the sake of argument). Typically, these aren't things I particularly care about. It turns out I want to help my friends, get praise from them, and maybe learn new things along the way. Without getting too far into evolutionary psychology reductionism, this seems... kind of reasonable? I don't necessarily think I have excessive curiosity towards any particular thing. I can empathize with people who, assuming they had a relatively stable/privileged upbringing, don't have an inner voice telling them what to work on -- maybe that's asking more than is reasonable? |
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