[liorben-david]

I think by definition you're not going to find that in big networks. The incentive structure is about gaining reputation for yourself. Best way to do that is to "dunk".

I have good faith discussions with friends/coworkers. The incentive is to raise the reputation of your relationship, and the only way to do that is be a reasonable (and not tribal) person. That being said, this relies on you not surrounding yourself with tribal people