[throw3823423]

A big part of this in the US is our continued evolution in suburbs: In practice, in person contact with others is a lot more work than historically. This makes children have very little contact with adults other than teachers and their own parents. Even contact in businesses is depersonalized, given this world of chains, large stores and many employees with changing shifts, leading to minimal recurring contact, and interactions that very rarely get personal.

More communal countries, both in Europe in Asia, still have some personal contact: From a pharmacist to an ice cream man, a town or a neighborhood can have community, and with that community come the children seeing those workers as people, and having a relationship with them. When most business is done on foot, people see each other down the street, or in the park, and there's a chance of community. With suburbia an cars, all social contact takes effort: Community get expensive, and few pay the price.

[pyuser583]

When suburbs were first built they were much more social. You had churches, Kiwanis clubs, veterans clubs, unions, bowling leagues, etc.

But those third place institutions have been gradually replaced by the internet.

[pseudalopex]

Bowling Alone said declining civic ties started in the 1960s. Critics said even earlier.