[deecewan]

> Tell me how you do the control/auth and allow certain users to access a resource while others

how would you do this with REST? or any other kind of API? graphql, at it's core, is a tool for the frontend to describe to the backend what data it wants. how the backend replies to that is completely up to the backend.

> formulate complex queries where they ask for the kitchen sink

most concrete implementations i've seen include a way to limit complexity. in `graphql-ruby` for example, you can limit how many nodes, and you can apply a "cost" to a particularly expensive-to-calculate node if you like. Say you give an API only 10 "complexity points". You could make most nodes cost 1 point, and expensive nodes cost 3 points. Now, someone can _request_ the kitchen sink, but you can respond with a "no".