[ilyt]

The latter is also hard to google, you can't exacly ask google "what database to pick with this and that constraints and capabilities"

[wizofaus]

That is the sort of thing I'd think LLMs (with suitable training data, that's not overrun with promotional material) would be good at. I've had ChatGPT recommend technologies to me before that I hadn't thought of or didn't know (much) about.