[wccrawford]

I still don't get why you keep saying, "I thought I had a good relationship with him". Because he won't support your charity, he's suddenly not your friend? You think you can just milk him for money any time you feel like it?

Did you ever stop to think that he only cut you the check because you were guilt-tripping him and he was thinking, "I thought I had a good relationship with this guy, but here he is shaking me down for money"?

Stop and take a look at things from the other side before you accuse the person of being a bad friend. It's rarely so simple that it only has 1 side.