[dave333]

A couple of angles. Firstly can you try to elevate your skills to more of an architect role and delegate most of the specifics to AI. Wrangling AI to produce something fast and good and cheap will be a highly sought after skill until AI takes over completely. Secondly can you moderate your expenses. Even here in Silicon Valley there are lower cost options for places to live for example modular houses (many large parks here) or possibly downsize into an ADU in someone's back yard.