[joebob42]

What if the patient wants other people in the circle? (I do, when I'm a patient. I've never really trusted doctors I've had due to my perception of competing motivations, and they've given me reason for that distrust more than once).

[Gatsky]

Sorry to hear you have suffered poor quality interactions with doctors. Being honest, if there is no trust in the relationship between patient and doctor, then nothing else matters much as the experience will be poor on both sides.

Patient can of course bring whoever they want into the circle. The problem is the intrusions that neither healthcare provider nor patient want.