[spangry]

It's also great because there's no way for you to dispute my claims of feeling uncomfortable / "unsafe", since these (alleged) feelings occur in my own head. No one can dispute my feelings. And if you're foolish enough to allow my (claimed) feelings to govern your behaviour I now have arbitrary control over you. Neat huh?

[zzzeek]

Except that is BS because these are purely technical positions being reacted towards, not anything about human relationships or power dynamics