[meristohm]

Err on the side of observing with all applicable senses. What matters is how you feel about each other, and if recording moments to view later helps with this, go for it. I take photos mostly to share with my spouse/co-parent and sometimes friends and extended family, but since a few times of feeling... disconnected while behind a camera I have scaled that back to being okay with forgetting.

The lasting effect of shared experiences is stronger.