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by rayanm 1120 days ago
Talking about feelings is all good and healthy assuming the problem to solve is technical and due to a misunderstanding. But what if the root cause of the build up of resentment is when one of the couple is changing and his/her feeling about the relationship is changing. Someone like me with disorganized attachment style can sense subtle changes quickly and react to it
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I don't really see why the two are different.

1. Technical / misunderstanding -> talk about how you feel

2. You or your partner or your relationship is changing (or you feel like it is) -> talk about how you feel