[monero-xmr]

Context is very important. With close friends anyone can say anything and it’s brushed off. In a tense business meeting where the difference in big money is how two groups speak and act, it makes sense to be calculating.

[whatshisface]

It's not talking about people who are "calculating," it is talking about people who switch between negging you and complementing you in a way that causes you to think about them too much.