[yieldcrv]

Because it’s not spontaneous what they are doing, it requires planning and coordination in direct contrast to spontaneity with coworkers

There isn’t anything wrong with planning and coordinating, it is simply not spontaneous and has no similarity in energy expenditure and availability

[Freedom2]

Felt pretty spontaneous to me: "My friend just messaged me, we're going to a new cafe that opened up near my house."

Or is that too much planning for you?

[yieldcrv]

What is the point of your response, in your own words