[brudgers]

In some families, conversations are weaponized. The question might feel belittling because it is used used to belittle.

Questions often reflect status relationships where some people have the privilege to expect answers and thus carry a demeanor of expecting answers to their questions.

Questions are used as a reminder that the other person is obligated to answer.

[SpaghettiCthulu]

Well, you might be somewhat right, but that sort of talk never came from my parents. It always came from authority figures at school or summer camps.