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by GalenErso 1136 days ago
I didn't get my first real phone until after high school, while everyone else had one.

I graduated salutatorian. I was able to focus on my homework after school for hours without distractions. I had a computer at home, but it was pretty crappy.

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I didn't get a phone until after high school and everyone else had one.

I didn't graduate salutatorian, I was miserable and lonely because I got left out of anything outside of school by my friends because I didn't have a phone.

I still don't have many friends to this day and I sometimes wonder if my lack of a social experience in high school crippled my ability to develop friendships.

So I mean.. maybe there's different outcomes. Not having a phone doesn't automatically make you productive.

There are also many students who have phones in high school and graduate valedictorian, so I’m not sure we can draw any conclusions.
Quality measurements and citation needed.
Sure you're able to complete school work without a phone. You're not able to have a normal social life though and for many parents that is more important than academic success.
This statement makes me question what a normal social life is, or isn’t.
It is being able to communicate and organize efficiently.

It isn't doomscrolling and posting endless selfies for dopamine.

How's your focus now?