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> Yes but what if you are not, Lol ... “well then figure out how are you going to become someone who is worth spending time with”- I just feel like that’s the hard part..

as someone who deep down doesn't feel he's worth spending time with I have to agree. and my impression is that going down that route of trying to solve it might make things even worse because what people want is to be around other people who are easy going and relaxed. I'm convinced it boils down to that. that's why laid-back pricks are consistently more popular than uptight nice guys. even though it technically or rationally doesn't make sense. but trying to fix an issue about yourself tends to make you even less relaxed as you are busier monitoring and reflecting yourself.