[cloverich]

If its helpful i have found that i am a better version of myself around only certain people, and i dont know why. On paper i wouldnt pick them to bring it out, and cant explain it. In practice i think that means keep dating, and believe that when you find people you mutually click with, hanging out becomes mutually fulfilling.

But it takes a lot of false starts, effort, and a few tries per person to figure out. That is daunting, but also each time a click happens you have a potentially lifelong friend and you only need a few for a lifetime of fulfillment. Getting rejected even 100 times is a small price to pay for that.

The world is very big, i guarantee we all have folks we click with. Just dont try to over rationalize the reasons, or overly constrain where you look.