[hinkley]

My introverted ass spends at least 6 hours a year for the last decade wondering if I should install a Customer Relationship Management program to use on my friends.

I mirror other people, always have. If they are happy to see me, I'm happy to see them. But if they don't call, I don't call. If we are both introverts we collectively decide that the other person thinks we're a toad and nobody likes us. If it weren't for the "Extrovert who collects introverts" trope I'd probably have no friends at all (or at least, prior to volunteering). There are a bunch of people I only ever see when we both show up at a third person's house or event.

[navigate8310]

You should really check out https://github.com/monicahq/monica

[carlosjobim]

> My introverted ass spends at least 6 hours a year for the last decade wondering if I should install a Customer Relationship Management program to use on my friends.

Please don't, that is not dignified neither for you nor for the people you put there. You could even call it creepy.

I had an acquaintance a few years ago that was a hacker type and I suspect he was doing that, and automatizing "what's up"-messages.

[hinkley]

Even when I'm doing the sending it still devolves to "what's up" 10% of the time.

[comprambler]

Just occurred to me that people CRM is called a phone book! Add notes, bdays, pics, etc.