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by Atlas22 1143 days ago
No, its perfectly fine to reach goals or ones you've had for most of your life, but its absolutely crucial that you make new goals to work towards. Its the same if you give up or change your mind about a goal, it has to be replaced.

From what I've heard (not my expertise) the brain chemistry primarily rewards the pursuit, not as much the outcome. I've been there a few times myself after both achieving and deciding to drop a major goal (because I learned more about the outcome that made it no longer desireable). Having no major goals is an almost certain recipie for clinical depression among other issues if one is not found quickly to replace it. I believe its because the intrusive thoughts of fundamental questions like "what is my life's purpose" now definitely have no answer in your own head.

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I have always held multiple answers to "what is my life's purpose".

On a universal level, there is no purpose.

On a global level, there is probably no purpose.

On a societal level, maybe you can do something to help <insert whoever you want to help without harming others>, if that makes you happy.

On a familial level, people usually feel good interacting with family/friends, so the purpose could be to keep those feelings going.

Up to the individual to play the game or not play the game, no right or wrong answer. But if you are tying your happiness to expectations of being able to cause grand changes at the universal/global/even societal level, then you will probably be disappointed. Everyone's existence is almost certainly meaningless in the "big" picture.