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You still has not explained your alternative plan and how it is going to scale in current society. Rape is an extreme case, there are also drunk (but not drugged/passed out) one night stands and men lying about their intentions/finances/etc. Isn't it better that the woman at least gets paid in an honest transaction? Speaking of drunk, few would argue that booze is an overall benefit to society, but we tried prohibition and saw how that turned out. So yes, adulting can include accepting unpleasant truths and choosing the lesser evil.