[seanhunter]

Strong No. Or at least “definitely not yet”. You have only just had the news and haven’t had time to fully process it, think through the ramifications and plan. Once the information is out you can’t take it back.

I have tremendous sympathy for your situation. It must be very difficult for you and on top of it you have now potentially this enormous secret. If you tell people it might help them to empathise with and make accommodations for you but honestly the risk is they do the opposite.