[rsolva]

I self-host GoToSocial, which is a Go implementation that is lightweight and minimalist. It might not meet all your demands, but it is good enough for me. I set it an forget it and it works. I guess it'll hit 1.0 this year.

[Xeoncross]

I'm really happy to see learn about GoToSocial, thanks for sharing I'll be investigating this evening.