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by sneak 1145 days ago
Paying a bill isn't forcing anything on anyone. It literally doesn't involve them, it's between the payer (the gift giver) and the payee (the restaurant).
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If you pay someone else’s debt without their consent it absolutely involves them. Of course the restaurant doesn’t care who pays.
How could it possibly? They aren't a party to the transaction.
They are. Picking up someone's tab is analogous to extending them credit. There are people out there who hate being indebted to anyone.
No, credit happens only by mutual consent. Paying someone's bill does not obligate them to reimburse you; extending them credit does.
It's still analogous to credit. Many people will feel like they owe you if you do it.