[avmich]

Is there a New England state with acceptably good conditions for trans people? Being physically closer to your original state could be really useful.

[armchairhacker]

Eastern Massachusetts. Also there are literally programs to help people like her move, such as https://www.rainbowrailroad.org/

But unless her friends are also moving its a hard sell. Her living situation won't be much better if at all, it could even be worse because everything is also more expensive and she knows no-one.