Maybe I'm too old, or hang with the wrong crowds - but my sense is that that "very clear message" only works within a certain narrow, violent, and machismo mindset. Outside of that mindset - it sends quite different messages, most of which are counterproductive.
Any chance that you've seen an action movie or two in which a lone hero was hauled off by a whole gang of big, tough bad guys?
Any chance that you've seen an action movie or two in which a lone hero was hauled off by a whole gang of big, tough bad guys?