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by 9530jh9054ven 1163 days ago
I'm not sure I can agree with that. I'm incapable of relationships, but even if it were, my background makes puts me at a elevated probability of becoming abusive towards towards an intimate partner.

Would you not say that most if not all people would not want an abusive partner? If so, then even if it were possible, would not choosing to remain unattached out of concern for others be the more... Correct? Ethical? Moral? In any case, the better choice then to unnecessarily subject them to that elevated risk?

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I would say that it would be appropriate to inform them of this, but that is their choice and risk to take.

If you don't like abusing people and avoid relationships for that reason, that is your choice to make.