I don't disagree, but then you shouldn't update Neovim if you are not ready for that. I'll go even farther: don't use Neovim if you are not going to write the config yourself.
Vim/neovim/emacs are all tools for power users, writing your own configuration and extensions is intended.
The authors of these tools have no wish to capture market share or users.
Use vscode if it fits you, no one minds or cares.