[kayodelycaon]

Truth really isn't the central issue here. The issue is communication. You want the other person to hear and understand what you are trying to convey.

You may need to present your information in a way that doesn't make the person defensive. Or you need to yell because someone is being an idiot and they need to stop immediately.

You want your words to have a specific result. Tailor your words to your audience in a way that won't harm trust or future conversations. Speak to people in a way where they will best listen.

- Some people want to be confrontational and make you stand your ground. Engage with that.

- Others can be touchy and defensive. They'll need a softer approach.

Now, you can't win with everyone. There comes a point when it's the other person's responsibility to listen in good faith. If they aren't going to do that, consider the people around you. How do you want them to see this conversation?

Or just walk away. There are only so many hills worth dying on. :)