[tacostakohashi]

The way you tell it, it sounds like you are passionate and talkative, which is mainly a good thing, unless it's so extreme that it's distracting and annoying.

It's important to fit in, but people also like people that are authentic, passionate and stand out in some way.

Fitting in and conforming to the group will stop you from being below average and an outsider, but will also stop you from excelling and being a leader.

It's kind of like dressing or fashion - it's better to wear a smart suit and tie to blend in than wearing something scruffy that sticks out as bad, but it's even better if you can own a look that sticks out as unique, like Steve Jobs with the black turtlenecks.