I don't drive much, but every car I have ever driven (50 years with a driver's license) has had a little toggle on the rear-view mirror to put it into night-time mode. Is that insufficient?
It's actually the side mirrors which are the problem. I tend to glance at them frequently to maintain situational awareness, but that good habit is punished when a vehicle with elevated lights simply hovers in the lane next to you. Many times I have to actively adjust the mirror to a useless position just to keep from accidentally blinding myself.