[gardenhedge]

Here are some words for you:

deliberative, thoughtful, methodical, considerate, introspective

[kilgnad]

Here's 3 words that overrides all your words:

cold hard truth.

[gardenhedge]

I think you misunderstood. You said "The most accurate words are actually derogatory". I proved that wrong by providing you with some accurate words that you did not know about.

[kilgnad]

No. You misunderstood. Accurate but not most accurate. The most accurate word overrides less accurate words.