Interesting. I've been doing psychoanalysis for over a year now, and I have similar complaints: I know exactly what went wrong with my life but I have no idea WTF to do with it. It's like I'm just picking the wounds
Aside from the dollars spent on therapy, is that outcome worse than being confused about why you are suffering? Or thinking that god or society just hates you? At least in some cases, it could lead to positive change, at least as a warning to others.