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by bm3719 1210 days ago
Even if someone wanted all those things, it would still be rational to weigh them against the negatives. That would include both realized downsides, like incompatibilities and conflicting life goals, and potential ones, like all of the negatives involved in divorce.

Doing such an analysis and coming up with a different conclusion than the (current) norm shouldn't be grounds for him needing mental health services.